Spring is a time of new beginnings and fresh starts after a long, cold, cloudy winter. But who among us gets excited about spring cleaning? That’s a tough one, which is why we are borrowing the romance metaphor and applying it to our closets. Who wants to closet clean when you can spring fling instead? Tossing out the old is always more fun than merely cleaning up the mess. Blech.
If you need convincing that it’s time to do something with your closets, consider this perspective from Marni Jameson, a nationally recognized columnist, blogger and author of five books on decluttering our homes and lives.
“A cleaned-out closet sets you up for a clearer mind and a more efficient day. It lets you start and end your day in an orderly space, where the decision of what to wear is easier because everything works,” says Jameson, whose books include “Downsizing the Family Home” and “Rightsize Today for Your Best Life Tomorrow.”
“The more stuff we have that we don’t wear because it doesn’t work, the more clogged and congested our minds and lives become,” she adds. “It’s a gift to go in your closet and know every single item in it fits, flatters and makes you feel good.”
Flipping the Script
Some of her recommendations are contrary to oft-repeated advice. For example, neither she nor Washington, D.C.-based home organizer Katherine Picott buy into the one-year rule. “Time alone doesn’t tell the full story,” says Picott.
“Whoever said you should get rid of any garment you haven't worn in a year has never spent $100 on a piece of clothing, skipped the holiday party or lived under a stay-at-home order for a year,” says Jameson. “If it still fits, is in good condition, you like it and would wear it again, keep it. How recently it’s been used should not be your sorting criteria. Some terrific classic pieces like a great wool coat or a fine silk scarf can be wardrobe staples for 10 years and beyond.”
Instead, she flips the closet-cleaning script to: Choose to keep, not to let go. Rather than looking for what to get rid of, decide what to keep. Start by taking everything out of your closet (yes, Jameson admits, it can make a mess), Then, ask yourself, “Would I buy this?” Put back in your closet only those items you would purchase again. Donate the rest.
To maintain your momentum, she suggests a trial separation pile. If you’re waffling over whether to keep or toss a garment, put it in a "trial separation" box. Revisit these items in a few months to make a final call. This way you keep moving without clinging too much.
What’s hiding in plain sight?
Not ready for a full-scale reckoning? Consider a more incremental approach that targets particular types of items. Start with the clothes that “tend to hide in plain sight, quietly taking up space,” suggests Picott, whose Tidy Milso service helps homeowners in the Washington, D.C., area organize their space and lives. Those of us farther afield can find tips in her Tiny Tings blog or by following her on social media.