What makes a Christmas movie epic? The same qualities that make Christmas not just a holiday, but also a symbolic stocking stuffed with a lifetime of precious and joyful treasures and some sad clumps of coal.
We drag out those memory-filled stockings and hang them back up every year. They stick to us, as surely as Ralphie’s friend Flick’s tongue sticks to the frozen flagpole in A Christmas Story.
Why do we get so attached to holiday movies? Because they celebrate two things we need to feel happy and whole: believing and belonging.
Yes, there is a Santa Claus … if we believe. Yes, faithful friends who are dear to us will gather near to us once more … if we belong.
Christmas lives in our memory, as John Williams wrote in the theme to Home Alone: Somewhere in my mem'ry, Christmas joys all around me … all of the fam'ly home here with me.”
When I hear that theme, I am transported back to 1990, when my daughters were babies. That’s why Home Alone and its first sequel top this list of 12 magical movies for 12 days of Christmas.
Home Alone (1990) and Home Alone 2: Lost in New York (1992): Kevin (Macauley Culkin) and his forgetful folks remind us there’s nothing like family, even if you’ve got a jerky big brother like Buzz. These films are so ingrained in my daughters’ psyches that they started calling my boyfriend “Marv” — after Daniel Stern’s character in Home Alone. (Let’s just say my boyfriend is a prankster.)
Meet Me in St. Louis (1944): This is not technically a Christmas movie, but it’s on my list because of one scene: Judy Garland singing the musical equivalent of a gut punch, “Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas,” to her sister, Tootie, played by Margaret O’Brien. Tootie is upset because their father wants to move the family to New York City.
Considering that the film came out during World War II, I dare anyone to hear these words of longing and not cry:
“Through the years, we all will be together
If the fates allow